Frequently Asked Questions:

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  • Almost everything.

    Craigslist and Facebook groups are open public marketplaces. Anyone can post, anyone can respond, and there is zero vetting of who you're connecting with. You're essentially trusting a stranger based on whatever they choose to tell you about themselves.

    Lily is a private concierge membership network. Here's what that means in practice:

    Every member is verified before entering our community:

    • Background screening through TransUnion (required for both Hosts and Guests)

    • Space Accuracy Certification: Hosts formally declare their space accurately represents their listing

    • Compatibility assessment: capturing lifestyle, values, habits, and household preferences before any introduction is facilitated

    Every introduction is intentional:

    • Lily facilitates introductions based on genuine compatibility, not who responds first or who has the catchiest listing

    • You never receive a list of strangers to sort through independently

    • Both parties make independent decisions. No pressure, no obligation

    Every member has ongoing support:

    • Lily's 30-Day Promise covers you if an arrangement isn't working

    • Our resource library includes a Shared Living Agreement template, move-in and move-out checklists, and community standards

    • Professional mediator referrals are available upon request

    • Our support team is reachable at support@thelilypadinitiative.com

    Craigslist and Facebook charge nothing because you are the product. Lily charges a membership fee because you are the community.

    Lily is not a listing platform, rental marketplace, or broker. We are a private women's housing membership network that verifies members and facilitates compatible introductions for shared living.



  • We appreciate you asking this. It's a smart question and you deserve an honest answer.

    First, our commitment: Lily is built for the long term. We are a registered Florida LLC with a clear mission and a growing community behind us. We are not a here-today-gone-tomorrow app.

    That said, here is what you should know regardless of any platform you use:

    Your shared living arrangement exists independently of Lily. The arrangement between you and your Host, including any Shared Living Agreement you've signed, is a direct agreement between two people. It does not depend on Lily's existence to remain valid. If Lily were to ever cease operations your arrangement would continue under the terms you independently established.

    This is exactly why we emphasize independent agreements. Lily strongly encourages every Host and Guest to establish a clear written Shared Living Agreement before move-in. That document is yours, it exists between you and your housemate, regardless of what happens to any platform.

    What Lily would do in an unlikely wind-down scenario:

    • Provide maximum advance notice to all active members

    • Ensure all member data is handled responsibly

    • Provide resources and support to help active members transition

    We are committed to this community for the long haul. But the strongest protection for any member is always a clear independent agreement with your housemate, and that's exactly what our resources are designed to help you establish.

  • Absolutely, and we love when members share Lily with women they care about.

    Referring a Guest: If you know a woman who is navigating a life transition and needs a safe, compatible place to land, send her directly to our website at www.thelilypadinitiative.com to begin her application. Let her know you're a Lily member. That personal connection means a lot to our community.

    Referring a Host: If you know a woman with a spare room and a generous heart, she may be exactly the kind of Host our community needs. Send her to our website to learn more about becoming a Lily Founding Host.

    Founding Member referral recognition: Lily recognizes and appreciates members who help grow our community. As our platform develops we will be introducing a formal referral program with benefits for members who refer both Hosts and Guests. Founding Members will receive first access to referral program details when they launch.

    Stay connected through our community updates — referral program details coming soon.